What Your Marriage Doesn't Have To Be: 10 Myths Christian Couples Believe About the First Year

The first year of marriage can feel like a rollercoaster—full of love, hard truths, learning curves, and unspoken expectations. But what if the pressure you’re feeling isn’t even yours? What if the real problem isn’t your partner... but the myths you've been believing from other people?

This honest, Spirit-filled guide tackles 10 common myths that sneak into Christian marriages early on—like “marriage fixes everything,” “your spouse completes you,” or “you can’t have fun anymore.” Those are just a few. But here’s the truth: they’re not true.

Your first year doesn’t have to be miserable. We’re living proof of that. We didn’t write this book to shame you or sugarcoat anything—we wrote it to offer wisdom, truth, and real-life insight from a couple who graciously walked through it.

Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or single, this is your reminder: God designed marriage for sanctification, love, laughter, intimacy, growth, and support—not just for survival.

Inside, you’ll get:

• A 10-chapter, easy-to-digest read
• Scriptural truth + practical insight for navigating early marriage
• Real talk on sex, conflict, community, comparison, communication & more
• Gentle encouragement and grace for wherever you are
• Conversation starters for you and your spouse (or your circle)

Plus, you’ll get a free downloadable cheat sheet that recaps all 10 myths with powerful truths, scriptures, and declarations—perfect for revisiting with your spouse or sharing in small groups.